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Life Is Good!

Posted: May 18, 2017 in Family, Stories
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Mother’s Day brings mixed emotions. This day can be really awkward at church. For many, Mother’s Day is an awesome celebration omothers-day-01f life and the joys of being a parent. My wife is an awesome mother to our kids and an even better “Gigi” to our grandchildren.

But Mother’s Day is a mixed bag for me as well as for many others. Gayla’s mother passed away in 2010. For those who have lost their moms, Mother’s Day is a day of grief marking that loss. You may know a mother whose son or daughter has passed away. No parent expects this kind of loss. One of our daughters struggles with infertility. She and her husband — along with many others — face the silent reminder of that struggle every Mother’s Day. For every woman who has experienced an unexpected miscarriage and grieve an unborn child, Mother’s Day is a day of grief.

Some of my friends have had their children fall into addictions, rebellion, and walking away from God. Mother’s Day always seems to remind them of how they “failed” in raising a godly child. Some women chose abortion and live with the reminder every Mother’s Day of what “could have been.”

As you can see, Mother’s Day can be mix of emotions.

So let me offer a good story to help us all on Mother’s Day. Bert and John Jacobs grew up the youngest of six children in a lower middle-class family in Boston. When the brothers were in elementary school, their parents were in a near-death car accident from which their mother managed to escape with just a few broken bones, but their father lost the use of his right hand.

The stress and frustration from his physical therapy caused him to develop a harsh temper, they explain in their book Life Is Good. “He did a lot of yelling when we were in grade school.” Life was not perfect. “There were often difficult things happening around the house.”

But their mother, Joan, still believed life was good. So every night as the family sat around the dinner table, she would say to her six kids, “Tell us something good that happened today.” As simple as her words were, they changed the energy in the home. The brothers write, “Before we knew it, we were all riffing on the best, funniest, and most bizarre part of our day.”

Growing up with a mother like theirs — one who sang in the kitchen, told animated stories, and acted out children’s books for them, no matter what bad situation they were going through  — that them an important lesson: Being happy isn’t dependent on your circumstances. “She showed us that optimism is a courageous choice you make every day, especially in the face of adversity.”

Perhaps you have heard of Bert and John’s little company — “Life Is Good T-Shirt Company.” Their never-quit attitude likely propelled them not to give up even though at one point they only had $78 between them. For five years, they traveled up and down the East Coast, sleeping in their van, living on peanut butter and jelly, and showering when they could. They sold their t-shirts in the streets and college dorms. Now their little company is worth millions — thanks to their mom’s three simple word that changed their lives forever. Life is good!

A glass bottle washed up on the beach, a decades-old note inside sounds a bit like the introductory scene in a movie. But for Clint Buffington that situation turned into a reality.  Huffington discovered the bottle nestled in the sand on an overcast day in the Turks and Caicos near the Bahamas.

When he took a closer look, he noticed what was written on the note inside the bottle: “Look inside.” That got his heart racing.imrs

Eventually, he broke the bottle open, revealing the note, which had been scratched out in pencil and contained a few clues: an address (419 Ocean); a name (Tina); a name of something? (Beachcomber, spelled incorrectly). Was it a place? Was it an object? The words “return” and “reward” eventually became more clear, too.

Buffington — “an experienced message-in-a-bottle hunter” — eventually tracked down a potential contact by the name of Paula Pierce, whose mother Tina had been an owner of a motel on 419 Ocean Boulevard in Hampton, New Hampshire. Though Buffington found the bottle in 2011, it was not until last month that Buffington and Pierce met in person. Pierce, whose father is believed to have written the message, said it was “like being contacted from the past….That gave me chills today,” she said, “I actually started to cry.”

And Buffington? “I’ve been really lucky that I have this thing that allows me to open the door and connect with people that I would never have any reason or right to connect with otherwise.”

What “message in a bottle” moments can we look for as we seek to connect with people? What doors can we open in order to foster relationships that may have never existed otherwise? God has a purpose for each one of us. That purpose involves coming to a faith relationship with Him through Jesus Christ. Coming to faith in Christ always involves some other person or persons. There’s always a connection, and that connection that leads to a “forever relationship” with Jesus Christ always involves a verbal or written testimony of the gospel.

images-3At the Midweek Service on Wednesday, I told about an article written in the New York Post. On October 29, 2012, Hurricane Sandy slammed into the coast of the Northeastern United States. (The article called the storm “venti-sized” which I prefer to the media referring to it as a superstorm, but that’s another story.)  By the time Sandy subsided, 286 people lost their lives along the storm’s path in seven countries.

As the hurricane bore down on New York City, almost everything shut down — except for one rogue Starbucks near Times Square. Desperate but highly committed Starbuck junkies fought high winds, dangerous rains, and dire warnings just to get a latte or a cup of coffee. Bethany, 28, walked 10 blocks with her one-year-old daughter for a fix. “I saw on Facebook that they were open,” she said. “It was scary not having Starbucks.” Her neighbor and friend, twenty-nine-year old Chris came along and later said, “When she said they were open, I said, ‘Pack up the baby. Let’s go!’ I didn’t know they were all going to close. I started panicking. There’s nothing else I would’ve gone out for. This makes my day complete.”

They were a part of a daylong stream of customers that packed the store, standing shoulder to shoulder and waiting at least ten minutes to order. Alex, 25, walked more than twenty blocks looking for an open Starbucks. He told reporters, “It took half an hour. But I’m a Starbucks fanatic. I go four or five times a day.” David, also 25, said he went to three closed Starbucks before learning the store was open. He said, “I’m really happy these guys are open. I can’t get a pumpkin spice latte anywhere else. The ten-minute wait was worth it.”

People will make sacrifices for what they value. If we value Christ, we will lay down our lives for Him. The people in this true news story were nuts, but you have to say that they weren’t lukewarm or uncommitted about following their deep desire for a pumpkin spice latte. They willingly risked the safety of their homes to pursue what they valued.

When it comes to serving the Lord, He calls us all to the same level of commitment. “If anyone will come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me” (Luke 9:23). That’s a definitive call and that call is not based upon what is comfortable. It’s a call to self-denial.

The Barkley Marathons at Frozen Head State Park; all photos are a little small. 3x2

The Barkley Marathons at Frozen Head State Park

Known as the world’s hardest race, the 100-mile Barkley Marathons in the mountains of eastern Tennessee provide a grueling test for the most-in-shape athletes. In this year’s race, none of the 40 runners completed the race. “The mountains won,” said Gary Cantrell, who created the even in 1986. “I was pleased with the outcome. It’s a competition between the humans and the mountains.”

In the 30 years of the race, only fourteen out of about 1,100 runners have completed the race. With a finisher rate of about one percent, the Barkley has been labeled by many as the world’s hardest race.

Along with a handout that includes race directions, participants are only allowed to use a map and compass to find their way. There are no medical aid stations on the course, which covers more than twice eh elevation gain of Mount Everest over the full 100 miles (or five 20-mile treks around the course).

Nicki Rehn, a 40-year-old Australian who is an assistant professor of education in Canada, completed one and a half of the five 20-mile laps this year before succumbing. “You don’t come here to be victorious. You come here to be humiliated,” she said. “It’s lonely out there. It’s eerie. You have to be comfortable being inside your own head. Everyone comes back pretty broken.”

It’s easy to get lost, confused, or weary in the Christian life—and the length of it can break us down. With such a race, we must run with perseverance with our eyes fixed on Jesus, who successfully completed the course.

Last Sunday we had a wonderful time in prayer and worship. About three months ago, when I began putting the service plans together for the summer, the Lord led me to set aside the Sunday nearest Independence Day for a “different kind of service.” At the time, I did not know exactly what it would entail. All I sensed at the time was that the service would be built around Psalm 130 and would include an observance of the Lord’s Supper.

While at the Southern Baptist Convention last month, it became clearer to me what that “different kind of service” would be. The week prior to the July 5 service, I had an emergency eye procedure. At first, I thought this would prevent me from participating in the service. However, what occurred was that the Lord used my time of convalescence to prepare my heart to lead the service. I must admit that I was not sure how our congregation would respond, but there’s little doubt that God spoke to us in an unexpected way! And yes, we will be seeking the Lord for His timing for another service during which we can pray individually and corporately for revival and spiritual awakening. We will do so until He brings an awakening.

In August of 2010, communications specialist Judy Rivers went to her local bank to open a new account. As the clerk input Rivers’s personal information, everything appeared to be going smoothly until the woman behind the desk stopped abruptly and frowned.

“That’s odd,” she said, “There seems to be an issue regarding your Social Security number.” Can you imagine the sense of dread Rivers’s must have felt? The bank employee excused herself, explaining that she needed to see her supervisor disappeared to the back room. Several minutes later, Rivers was greeted by the branch manager.

“Ma’am,” the woman pronounced, holding a folded paper, “your Social Security number was deactivated in 2008 due to death.”

Incredulous, Rivers rose from her chair, “You’re trying to tell me that I’ve been dead for two years,” she stammered, “and no one bothered to tell me?”

Surprisingly, what happened to Rivers occurs more often than I would have guessed. It is estimated that more than 12,000 U.S. citizens are declared dead by the Social Security Administration due to “keystroke errors.” In 2011, the Office of the Inspector General conducted an audit of the Death Master File, and found that, from May 2007 to April 2010, some 36,657 people had been added to the master file, making them legally dead — at least according to the Social Security Administration. Those affected become like the walking dead, unable to secure a job, make financial transactions, file taxes, or visit the doctor. For months on end, they must endure the nightmare of convincing a large bureaucracy that they have not yet “bitten the dust.”

This made me think about all the people who think that they are living but who are actually dead. At the beginning of Ephesians 2, Paul wrote, “And you were dead in your trespasses and sins in which you once walked, following the course of this world” (Eph. 2:1). People without Christ may appear to be living full lives; however, they are dead spiritually. They may go to school, to work, get married, have children, enjoy many of the things of live, but if never embrace Christ, they will face a horrible end — judgment before God and eternal damnation in hell.

I cannot imagine the frustration and inconvenience that Judy Rivers and others like her must have dealt with because, to paraphrase her words, “No one bothered to her that she was dead.” But what she experienced with the Social Security Administration is nothing compared to those who have had someone “bother to tell them” that they were spiritually dead.

I’m glad someone bothered to tell me about Christ and how to find true life in Him! Who has God placed on your heart to tell about Jesus Christ? Let’s follow through and take time to share with them how you came to Christ and how they can as well.

camden-yardsA record that stood for almost 125 years fell on April 29, 2015, when the Baltimore Orioles and the Chicago White Sox played before an empty Camden Yards. Absolutely no fans filled the seats. Prior to “the zero in attendance” record, the previous low mark came in a professional baseball game on September 28, 1882, when six people watched the Worcester Ruby Legs defeat the Troy Trojans 4-1.

The bizarre development in Baltimore came as a mandate from the Major League Baseball office in wake of protests and outbursts of violence. Here’s how an Associated Press article reported one incident from the fan-less game:

Chris Davis might have hit the quietest home run for the home team in Orioles history. As the slugger pounded the ball deep onto Eutaw Street, just a few feet from where fans normally would have sprinted after a chance a souvenir, there was almost nothing to hear. The only muffled cheers came from a pocket of diehards locked out of Camden Yards yelling, “Let’s Go O’s!”

On this day, 30,000 Orioles fans had been muted. The wild applause had been silenced. There were no fans to stand for a standing ovation. Just Davis’s teammates in the dugout coming over for high-fives. “When you’re rounding the bases, and the only cheers you hear were from outside the stadium,” he said, “it’s a weird feeling.”

No live audience, no cheering fans, no applause — as a Christ-follower, how much does the audience affect your performance? How much does the cheering crowd motivate you to do a good job? Would you do what you do in ministry, if no one applauded for you or patted you on the back? Are you content to live before the Lord, the “Audience of One”?

NEW YORK - JUNE 11:  Actor Denzel Washington visits the

One of my favorite actors, Denzel Washington, gave the commencement address at last month’s graduation ceremony at Dillard University in New Orleans. During his address, Washington urged the graduates to put God first and thank Him constantly: “Put God first in everything you do….Everything that I have is by the grace of God, understand that, It’s a gift…. I didn’t always stick with Him, but He stuck with me…. While you’re on your knees, say thank you. Thank you for grace, thank you for mercy, thank you for understanding, thank you for wisdom, thank you for parents, thank you for love, thank you for kindness, thank you for humility, thank you for peace, thank you for prosperity. Say thank you in advance for what is already yours…. True desire in the heart for anything good is God’s proof to you sent beforehand that it’s already yours…. When you get it, reach back, pull someone else up.”

Not only must we thank God for all He has done and offered to us, we have plenty of thanks to offer to the people in our lives. We should thank our parents for loving us, for providing for us, for teaching us, for playing with us, for showing us how to live, for pointing us to Christ. We should also thank those who have invested in our lives and made it possible for us to be who and what we are today. Teachers, mentors, coaches, pastors, supervisors, and bosses have all contributed to our lives.

This past week at our Vacation Bible School, many adults and teens came together to provide a great week of instruction and fun that I believe had an impact on the children. Some of these kids have been forever changed because they came to know Christ personally. Others had their lives enriched through a deeper relationship with our Savior, and still others had “a little more foundation laid” so that the gospel might one day take hold in them.

Don’t forget to say “thank you.” It really makes a difference. Do you want proof? An airline pilot flying between Spain and England received a very special note from a passenger recently, and he shared it on social media. The passenger, mindful of the recent pilot-caused airline crash in the French Alps, wrote a heartfelt thank you for a safe flight to her family back home, appreciative, perhaps for the first time, of someone she had taken for granted every time she set foot on an airplane. “You’re making a massive difference and you’re the reason I can smile tonight,” she wrote.

When was the last time you truly saw and appreciated one of the “invisible” people who deeply impact your life every day? Perhaps gratitude and mindfulness of such folks will help you see your life in a new light.